There's a difference between being inlove and loving something about a person. Alot of people answers the question, why do you love him/her? With: "I don't know, there's alot of reasons". I have no Idea what to say except for the heart, I see that persons heart... I don't know if we're neutral, evil or good when we get born, but I know that we as individuals get formed through experience offered along the path of life. Some has there good side dominating and some has there bad side dominating, but I always belive that both sides exist. I think, well I'm not sure but I think it's that we see their good sides and even though we clearly know they have a bad one to we ignore because we believe in them, we see that persons heart...
Age difference, etnicity, religion, political views, different society classes are some reasons for standing in the way of what we're allowed to feel and for whom. Some might think who cares all is allowed in love and war, but I know that reality isn't that way atleast not for me. For me it's religion, what I'm trying to say is that you know what you believe in and you know your limits so don't jump into something you can't handle and even if you can make it alive the other person might not. Even if you see that heart don't try to make it yours unless your 100% sure that you'll keep it safe...
Problem is, most people see everything from their point of view.. fearing the fact that they might be hurt, they ignore the fact that there's two in a relationship and that the other person might end up being the one being hurt. People too often neglect the responsibility with making someone fall for them and trusting in the word forever
SvaraRaderaSo true...
SvaraRaderaSos this post almost triggered me to get into philosophical views hahaha but ill write that novel and debate another time:D Me very proud of u i so agree!!<3
SvaraRaderaHAHAHAHa I shall look forawrd to it :P
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